with
Karen Stone, MSW, LCC, CCIM
Coach, Writer, Speaker, Trainer
SOMETIMES YOU JUST DON’T KNOW….
and you are stressed, anxious, tired, disillusioned, and stuck. Uncertainty is coming at us faster and from more directions that ever before. You want something to change. But you are too depleted and confused to sort out your life and make a move.
What if you could change how you are feeling and how you are reacting to not knowing what to do? What if your uncertainty can be an invitation rather than a stressful, time-wasting aggravation that stops you in your tracks? What if not knowing is an opportunity to grow, rather than a path to frustration and breakdown?
After years of research, reflection, and real-world practice, I know you can use uncertainty in a life changing way. I have a roadmap that will take you from being stuck and tired to seeing new possibilities for your life and making better, life affirming choices.
It’s time to learn a new life skill and save yourself stress, mental, physical, and spiritual anguish, and precious time. My clients have successfully and consistently walked the path I will share with you, and, without a doubt, I am certain you can learn how to leverage your uncertainty and Grow When You Don’t Know.
IS THIS YOU?
You have reached a high level of professional or personal achievement. On the outside, you look polished, confident, and successful. You appear to have it all together. Yet inside, you feel anxious, stressed, disillusioned, and stuck. You are exhausted from holding on tightly to the rung you have obtained on the life success ladder. If you show any weakness or let go, you are afraid you will crash. Your relationships and your health are on a downward spiral. You don’t know what to do to stop it.
Your logical mind searches for a way out. It tells you it’s safer to just stick with your current plan. Yet, your heart and spirit long for a different life, built on your own terms rather than on the expectations of those above you and around you. You just don’t know what that life looks like…or how to get there.
So, you stay where you are, defend your current turf, and feel your life, vitality and dreams slipping away, day by day.
WHAT IF A LOGICAL SOLUTION WILL NOT GET YOU THE ANSWERS YOU SEEK?
You have been taught a “next logical step” model of success and fulfillment. Make a plan, set goal #1, chunk it down, and go for it. Set goal #2, chuck it down and go for that one.
But what do you do when your plan doesn’t seem to matter anymore, and you can’t make yourself stick to it?
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- are experiencing uncertainty in your life
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- don’t know what to do in these uncertain times
- want to create a more fulfilling life
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WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU JUST DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO?
You have not been taught how to leverage times of internal and external uncertainty. In fact, not knowing is often seen as a weakness, as something to get over as quickly as possible so that you can be back “in the know” and create a new plan. So, you pick the most logical path you can think of and forge ahead in that direction. You feel better for a while, absorbed by your newest goal.
Until the Don’t Knows come back, and you feel anxious, stressed, lost, and disillusioned again. You are back to square one, but less hopeful and more exhausted than before.
WHAT IF NOT HAVING A PLAN FOR AWHILE IS OKAY…MORE THAN OKAY?
Actually, not knowing what to do – what I call having a Don’t Know Experience, is a nudge from a very wise and loving part of you, encouraging you to look inside and search in another way and in another direction.
Your heart and spirit are trying to get your attention because you are meant to be more, and live differently, than you are right now. You just need a way to look at your life through a different lens so you can see outside your current box.
ALLOWING YOURSELF TO SIT IN THE SPACE OF NOT KNOWING FOR AWHILE IS ACTUALLY THE WAY THROUGH.
A Don’t Know Experience is an opportunity to explore, be curious and listen to the wisdom inside of you that wants to be heard. By paying attention and giving yourself time and space to not know, you discover what you really want to do, rather than what you feel you must and should do. You reconnect with who you authentically are and start living a more fully alive life.
So how do you take advantage of the opportunity presented to you when you Don’t Know?
Just as you learned how to be successful at living the life you are living now, you can learn how to use a Don’t Know Experience in a successful, life enhancing way.
You can discover how to turn your DON’T KNOW EXPERIENCE into an exploration-driven growth spurt rather than a frustrating and draining obstacle.
My own Don’t Know Experiences, and my desire to embrace all of life, motivated me to
study, research, and then teach myself to leverage uncertainty. Over the years, I developed a roadmap to follow whenever I Don’t Know. Because of this roadmap, I have successfully navigated through many Don’t Know Experiences and lived many exciting, successful, and diverse chapters in my life. And it has and is changing the way my clients live their lives.
It is my passion and honor to guide you on this journey as you learn to
Grow When You Don’t Know.
Along the way, you will:
- Get immediate relief from your anxiety, stress, and fear by approaching your Don’t Know Experience as an invitation to grow, rather than a failure.
- Uncover the thoughts and beliefs that keep you disillusioned and stuck.
- Form a new, life-enhancing relationship with uncertainty.
- Save yourself time, trauma, and drama by exploring options to your current “have to stay on this treadmill” approach.
- Learn and use Tackling Tips and Tools to access your inner wisdom.
- Turn your focus from holding on tightly to what you have to exploring possibilities.
- Bring wonder and curiosity back into your life.
- Rediscover your passions– and begin to incorporate these things into your life.
- Get in touch with who you want to be and how you want to show up in life.
- Learn and follow a new pathway to personal awareness and growth.
- Practice a new life skill allowing you to grow whenever uncertainty comes your way and you don’t know.
UNCERTAIN TIMES ARE HERE TO STAY.
As you explore and grow from your current Don’t Know Experience, you will be more prepared to leverage uncertainty whenever it comes into your life.
"We are living in a new decade. One that promises to be increasingly volatile, uncertain, complex, and ambiguous. You have to not only prepare for this, but welcome it. You have to train your mind so you shape how you experience your circumstances, not the other way around. "
- Darren Gold
In our fast-changing world, uncertainty comes around more often and more intensely.
Each time it does, you have a choice:
stay stuck and waste precious time by defaulting to your current KNOW,
or
take advantage of your Don’t Know Experience, use it wisely and consciously to change the fabric, feel and trajectory of your life, and more quickly become the unique, fulfilled person you know you can be.
Everything you want to be, do, and have that is not in your life right now exists in the Unknown.
When you learn how to embrace the space of not knowing, and explore, all things are possible.
~ Karen
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